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Sex Work Cyber Resource & Support Center
Promoting Intimacy and Positive, Healthy, Consenting Adult Sexuality
Created By Dave in Phoenix Opened December 7, 1997
E-mail: dave@davephx.com
Massive Phoenix
Bust August 2008
Going after maybe thousands of customers from 400 page ledger police found.
Extensive Police report is very detailed and very damaging. For legal reasons I
am not sharing many of the details on a public board only on the
Phoenix Private List by private e-mail
6/8/08 Dave Elms of TER in Jail on another felony charge!
May 1, 2008
Deborah Jeane
Palfrey, the "D.C. Madam"
The good legal briefs, the terrible
defense at trial and the Tragic Suicide
A history lesson as to waste of resources and lives over in private consenting
adult sexwork
Outcall as in her service - legal in almost all the world except the U.S.
3/14/08 Dave, sexwork.com Guest on Air America - Decriminalizing Prostitution
LoveTouch
Loving touch, sensual and sexual is a
fundamental need of all humans.
Workshops & Seminars
Our Key Message:
Private Consenting Adult Prostitution is legal with no major negative issues in
almost all the world except the U.S. The issues of children, trafficking,
public nuisance street hookers, and pimps HAVE NOTHING TO
DO with Private Consenting Adult sexwork - GET IT! Educate the public to
get upset with lawmakers, the courts and police for wasting money on private
consenting adult behavior! Get the law out of our bedrooms!
Coalition To
Decriminalize
Private Adult Sexwork
IMPORTANT GOOD NEWS
Lawrence vs. Texas Link
Do we have in private consenting adult rights in the U.S. like most of the world
enjoys?
No, says the religious right and most conservatives
Yes, says the U.S. Supreme Court but questions remain
As Newsweek said, Lawrence vs. Texas is one of the 3
most important Supreme Court decisions in the last 100 years
I have consolidated previous reports on this links page to the major reports on the Case
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NOTE: Since this site is viewed worldwide, it
is up to the visitor to determine what activities are legal in their location.
We do not promote or recommend any illegal sexual services. Unlike most of the rest of the world, citizens of the U.S. do not have consenting, in private, adult freedoms. In the U.S. those in power, know what is best for you. The Christian groups (self-righteous minority that has an undeserving influence) that mostly control the power in the U.S. are so morally weak that they can not coerce everyone into their views without imposing their morality by law to force everyone to follow their perverted repressive view. Ironically their views have no biblical basis, yet they try to control with their biblical ignorance all citizens by laws they get passed. Some cities choose not to actively enforce in private morality law crimes while others like Phoenix are very active wasting police resources setting up stings and entrapments, seeking to prevent healthy, safe, private consenting adult activities that benefit the culture.
This site is more directed to the rest of the world where you have the right to private, voluntary, consenting adult sexworkers. That is why much of this site is directed to citizens and travelers to Canada and most of the world outside the U.S. where you have these freedoms. In the U.S. we only recommend legal intimacy that does not involve sexual involvement for any compensation
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LoveTouch
Link
Loving touch, sensual and sexual is a
fundamental need of all humans.
Workshops & Seminars
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Phoenix Arizona Section
Phoenix
Private List Newsletter
For Phoenix/Tucson:
Private Reviews Of Phoenix/Tucson
Link
Intimacy Providers
Of the hundred of E-mails that have praised the list
over the last 10+ years, this one is representative of what list members say:
Thanks for all you do for the list. Because of
you and the list, I haven't been ripped off in a long time. I play it
really safe when it comes to my choices, but if it weren't for the list, I'd
waste a lot of time and money.
We also share local and worldwide news of the industry and Alerts
about dangers such as in July 2003 the terrible string of attacks by a pervert
who chokes incall providers till they pass out, rapes, robs and further assaults
them. We deal with these issues as a Community, bringing in provider
friendly law enforcement. The List Community is based on honesty and
integrity sadly this is not the case with some other boards.
LINKS OF
Honest Phoenix Sexworkers That Support our view of Honestly and Integrity in the Phoenix Private List Community7/11/05 Rapist Who Choked Providers Till Passed Out , Raped and Robbed Them CONVICTED in Phoenix
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Warning: Yahoo Groups Suspends On Whim And Wont Give Reason
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National Review & Discussion Board I recommend

http://www.AfterHoursCentral.com
11/06 Article about board: NOT the
typical "bro's before ho's" attitude But
an Honest, Mentoring Board for Providers & Customers
HONESTY OVER
POPULARITY, ANYDAY!!
Local Boards I recommend
Northern California http://forum.myredbook.com/cgi-bin/dcforum2/dcboard.pl
Las Vegas
www.lvfever.com
Phoenix
Private Reviews Of Phoenix/Tucson
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This discussion of sex work is the personal view of Dave and does not necessarily represent the views of other leaders of Liberated Christians or Fellowship group members. Dave is co-founder of Liberated Christians Promoting Positive Intimacy and Sexuality Including Responsible Nonmonogamy or Polyamory as a legitimate CHOICE for Christians and others / Exposing false traditions of sexual repression that have no biblical basis. Promoting Intimacy & Women-Centered, Loving Sexuality. Sybian for Maximum G-spot orgasms for women's pleasure and therapy
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Why Such
A Serious Sex Work Center Without Sexy Pictures
No Sex Ads, No Adult Check, Nothing To Pay To View
The Need For Sex
Workers
For many years, I've done intimacy and
sexuality counseling and am co-founder of Liberated Christians. From the huge response we
get at Liberated Christians, it is clear that our culture is full of tease and titillation
but many men in particular, don't have a clue when it comes to physical intimacy skills
and what is sexually fulfilling to most women. Sorry guys. There are wonderfully intimate
men who are exceptions of course.
I also hear from a vast number of single men and women who are very sexually frustrated. I can relate to their situation since although I teach and lead mostly couples, I don't have my own relationship. Sex work could provide companionship, intimacy and sexual fulfillment for both men and women if done with the right attitude by sex workers with good attitudes and warm personalities viewing clients as real people, not just ATM machines for money. Likewise sex workers should be viewed with dignity and respect, and not as bodies parts to be grope and poked.
Our newsletter went to over 3000 people all over the world before we started the web site in 1997. Now often 2500 different people a day come to our Cyber Resource Center. We get a huge positive response we never dreamed of from our Cyber Resource Center (http://www.libchrist.com). I have led intimacy, communications and sexuality workshops for about 300 people in our Phoenix Couples Fellowship Group. I've been a featured speaker at the largest national swing conventions, speaking on "Swinging Christians- Not a Biblical Conflict" and "Swinging Without Jealousy or Guilt." My interest is not "recreational swinging" but responsible non-monogamy (or polyamory), based on love and honest relationships, as a legitimate moral choice for those that find it much more fulfilling than just monogamy. It is the opposite of "cheating" But it only works if your relationship is strong based on love and honest communications.
I hear the same problems from couples regarding intimacy over and over again. As one women said to her husband while I was sharing some intimacy with his wife, "See honey, foreplay is more than ready-brace!"
Over the years I have published lots of material regarding biblical, intimacy, communications and sexual issues for couples. But I've also been interested in sex work to help those not in sexually fulfilling relationships.
My main interest is in promoting legal sensual encounters which can be just as fulfilling if not more so than just sex. But for many sensual intimacy is much harder than just having sex.
For years I've enjoyed reading about how great sex work has been in other cultures and I've shared ideas with some of the leading sex worker advocates, some of whose stories I share with their enthusiastic permission.
Goal:
Awareness & Support For Sex Workers
& Sexual Intimacy Opportunities For Customers
My goal is to build awareness and support
for sex workers, to promote decriminalization and encourage ideas that could be beneficial
to everyone in our culture. If sex work was more honored and done by the right people,
women should welcome their husbands going to learn better sex and intimacy skills.
While I support the availability of good intimacy and sex to all single men and women, I can not condone nor encourage cheating by husbands or wives who may not be open and honest about their needs with their spouse. Fortunately there are many wives and husbands who realize their mates sexual needs are greater than their own, and lovingly support their mate getting their needs met outside the marriage. Since many women have much more sexual capacity then men, especially as we age, I see many men encourage their wives to share sexually with others. But it is based on honestly and integrity, which is the opposite of "cheating."
A very wise note from a provider in
Dallas written in our Guest book says:
"It's absolutely ridiculous that it's an illegal profession, because the guys I see
are so normal and just want some company, to see someone's "smile" and
warmth...and of course the sex...usually they are not getting elsewhere. I see this
occupation as very healthy since it provides so much to a man and the woman also. Not
often can the man find the convenience of a woman who is sexy and willing to cater
undivided attention to his desires and the woman able to fulfill her most needed financial
desires. And both are usually/hopefully smiling and happy with the experience...for
myself, I am elated to have someone so pleased with me, and also because I have usually
made his happiest part of the week or month...whatever it be. As the old saying goes when
someone has an awesome experience, "this should be a crime"...did someone think
that was meant to be literal??
I'm really into thinking good about yourself. I think this business should be a
win-win situation for everyone. Since you are into counseling, you know what I mean.
That's really my intention...and I do offer my friendship to my clients. This business
really gets bad hype, but it is so ironic that I have found it for me and my clients to be
such an uplifting experience. Besides from the (legal) risks, I think it to be one of the
most positive jobs there is."
Repressive Illogical Laws Reflect Immature Culture
But Free Speech Is Protected
With our repressive laws in this area, I need
to make it clear I am not promoting, nor do I receive any financial benefit from any
illegal activity. Fortunately the right of free speech protects publishing information
about sex workers. Based on the many reports I receive from customers on our private
E-mail list, many sex ads are just to steal money from men
and rip them off. This gives all sex workers a bad reputation. My "mantra" is about sharing
intimacy and legal ways of sharing sensually among consenting adults. Just
like buying a fine dinner for the bodies appetite, there should be nothing wrong with
paying to receive the same nourishment for the body, intimately and sexually.
My Personal Interest
in this site
I enjoy physical intimacy with a wide
variety of women who also enjoy good touch, cuddling, massage, caressing etc. I have lots
of ideas for more intimacy based on many years of teaching intimacy workshops for couples,
counseling many couples as well as hearing from a huge number of men that are seeking more
intimacy from sex workers. I am interested in being friends to legitimate sex workers and
sharing ideas, but not usually as a client. I have been professionally trained and teach
Esalen massage, which many women have enjoyed experiencing with me. I offer free massage
to sex workers/dancers/massage therapists. Or, I offer what I call a non-sexual cuddle and
caress experience so many women enjoy. Yes, I also enjoy sex but not "just sex"
without intimacy with the great sex. One of the problems I face in dating many
"normal" women is that as one said, "I am looking for a man who values
monogamy as much as I do." The problem is they only see cheating as the
alternative to monogamy. But because I have such different views, finding like
minded single women is very hard. Obviously sex workers often face the same issues
in their own personal relationships.
Disclaimers
& Legal discussion
There are numerous
laws related to how consenting adults can or cannot sensuously enjoy themselves. As a
result of confusion about these laws, there may be a tendency to limit our behavior
unnecessarily. As the legal boundaries of sex work are explored, this should not be taken
to indicate encouragement of illegal prostitution, regardless of how immature and
intrusive we may view such laws. My interest is in encouraging lovingly intimate
sensuous encounters between consenting adults. Under no circumstance do I condone or
encourage illegal behavior. I receive no financial benefit from any sex worker for
any illegal services. What is frustrating to many is not knowing where the line is
drawn between legal and illegal sensuous behavior. One purpose of this site is
sharing those rules and making them available to other consenting adults. A more extensive
legal discussion is included at Sex Work Legal Issues
& Suggestions with a special thanks to Clarity for her great legal research and
information referenced and linked in that section. I provide no former legal advice on
this site but simply ideas. I am not a lawyer and have no legal training. Any
discussion or writing about law on this site is purely conjecture. If you benefit or
suffer from any information on this site, it
is not my responsibility.
What
countries have legal prostitution?
Most all
except the U.S. - See link for details
Legalization of Prostitution ?
Massive Madam "Circuit" Bust
by FEDS and
The Outcry Over Wasted Resources
IMPORTANT Opportunity to Change Federal Law
Under the Trafficking Victims Protection Act of 2000 (22 U.S.C. 7102(9)) that
was reauthorized in 2005 but for which funding expires after 2007 the DEFINITION
of trafficker includes ALL prostitution not just forced! Funding expired at the
end of 2007. The Act is up for reauthorizaation now under the current Anti-Human
Trafficking Bill which many in Congress are trying to get passed by the end of
the year. I have extensive information and a suggested leter to Congress people
at
http://sexwork.com/legal/Fedlaw.html
For information on Liberated Christians go to Liberated Christians
which has nothing to do with sex workers, but promoting loving intimacy and support for
those who find Polyamory more meaningful than traditional monogamy.


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