Escorts - Why We Hire Them
A honest view of one guy
The government has failed to realize is that it cannot control sexual desire.
In addition to this, it can't control what goes on behind closed doors. It
is for this reason that many countries simply allow this trade to flourish,
or they legalize it completely. I've been a hobbyist for about four years,
and I can tell you that it was one of the best decisions I ever made. There
are a number of reasons why I hire escorts, and many of these reasons are
shared by other hobbyists.
We are sick and tired of the dating routine, and we are tired of the games
that women play on dates. I've gone on dates, held open the door, pulled out
the chair, and paid for the meal. At the end of the night, I didn't get anything,
and a few days later, she would tell me that she "just wants to be friends."
As you can imagine, the situation can become quite frustrating.
I one day came to the realization that sex could be purchased, and it wasn't
necessary to go through all the loopholes you have to go through to get laid.
If you have enough money, some women would be willing to sleep with you. Upon
reaching this realization, I had an epiphany which changed the course of my
life. I decided that I would no longer chase women like other guys my age.
While other guys chase women, I will make money, and I will have women come
to me. By simply paying for sex whenever I want it, I could spend my time
building up my business rather than chasing women.
I'm 25 years old, and most guys my age are busy chasing women at clubs and
parties on the weekend. Me, I focus on reading, studying, and building up
wealth. These guys are wasting their time, and their lives will pass by quickly.
Like Tony Montana said in the movie Scarface "In this country, you gotta make
the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when
you get the power, then you get the women."
This is one of the best quotes I've ever heard, and its directly related to
why I hire escorts. You get money and power first, then you get the women.
Most guys try to do it the other way around, and thats why they fail. I also
believe in the philosophy of Tupac Shakur, which was MOB, or Money Over Bitches.
As the name implies, MOB means that the acquisition of wealth is more important
than women. In essence, it follows the same quote that was made by Tony Montana.
Many men will continue to be scammed by women because they don't understand
these philosophies. I'm proud of being a hobbyist, and I tell almost everyone
I know about it, except for my mother of course. When you tell people that
you hire escorts, many of them look down on you.
They've been taught that prosititution is an ugly thing, and in some ways,
they're right. They're right when you hire a cheap drug ridden woman off the
street. However, they're wrong when you hire an expensive escort that has
the looks of a model.
Most celebrities, CEOs, politicians, and men with money hire escorts. Why?
Because they understand the philosophy of Tupac and Tony Montana. They know
that dating is a headache, and it can reduce their ability to focus on wealth
building. As for you guys that think you're getting sex for free by chasing
women at clubs, you're wrong. Time is money, and unlike money, you can never
get it back......
Dave comments: I think especially as young men there should also be time allocated
to finding real caring long-term relationships other than just paying women.
Also one needs balance in life not just all about money and work. Instead
of being all work I have many other interests that I believe have enhanced
myself as a person and can perhaps help others with that is fulfilling but
has resulted in my not being nearly as wealth as I could be if I followed
the money first idea. I believe I am far happier where I am in life, than
if I was a rich tycoon without the other experiences in life. Of course both
would be ideal!
However I very much relate to the unlikely to win dating game and while I
have had many great real relationships in my life none have been permanent.
My goal is not to give up on seeking real "civilian" relationships yet I have
a high level of intimacy desires which is met by "for the moment" interactions
with the right kind of paid companion when not having the ideal of non paid
With all my various interests and business it is hard to take the time to
seek relationships, especially when the odds for finding the ideal women are
so low. This is even more true perhaps for older men like myself who aren't
attracted to the typical middle aged overweight women that we would meet in
the real world.
For married guys whose wives lose interest in sex or who naturally enjoy variety
in their intimate relationships, a paid companion is so much better and safer
both emotionally and health wise than picking up a women in a bar etc. And
she is not a threat to the otherwise wonderful but lacking sexual fulfillment