The Power of the Internet - Sharing These Experiences

Good morning Dave:

We have strong opinions on the Internet being a force for good in society. The Internet brought down the Berlin Wall and the Iron Curtain. Persons of strong libertarian and persons of strong Orthodox religious beliefs soared their separate words and the disinformation people could not stop or distort it.

The Internet is the meeting place of all sorts and the information distributor of the 21st Century. Ideas and thoughts are freely shared there.

Pornography plays a large role for the good in today's society in bringing down social taboos of the past. Please bear with me as I explain.

In the 1950s a person who gave blowjobs (man or woman) was considered dirty. It was for gay men to do and that was it. In the parts of the country dominated by traditional Christian pastors and Catholics any sexual activity aside from procreation was considered bad and dirty though the Catholic Church supported "natural" birth control, rhythm in particular. Condoms were verboten until the end of WW II when the men came home with the notion they were OK.

The reason Annie succeeded in prostitution is a mixture of many good business factors. The first is that she offered a product which was in great demand and short supply. First, she appealed to her peers because she would give head to a boy, many boys at one sitting. To be blunt about it, while the girls on the dance floor were rubbing their bodies against their dance partners Annie was in the parking lot or the boys room receiving the hardons the other girls created in her mouth. Only a terribly small percentage of women gave blowjobs then and at age twelve Annie was selling them.

By the time Annie was thirteen Annie was discovered by her priest and shortly afterward many men who couldn't resist the idea of having a young post pubescent girl have any sort of sex with them. How many men don't fantasize about a young woman (girl) in their bed? Not many. And for her the thought she could fully control an adult man by surrendering herself to his will was a powerful force for her, not to mention it made her a lot of money.

Folks who practice BDSM I think have a better idea of how people interrelate. Virtually everything we do is a power exchange. Annie has and continues to work with battered women. Their mistake in life is exchanging the power over themselves to Masters who don't understand their own role in the relationship.

I hinted at the outset of this story that Annie and I had a special arrangement. Annie is very bright. An excellent student in academics and of people. It took me about ten years to understand I was Annie's slave. She is my Mistress, unconditionally. She never demanded it, I freely gave it. It is not an arrangement but rather a fact and a very powerful motivator for me. I do not merely love her, I adore her. A partnership needs a leader and committed partner to succeed. We talk through everything in our lives including the writing of this story. We exchange thoughts and ideas on everything. We communicate very well. In the end however I follow her judgment. He desires are my commands, without question. I am hers body and soul. And I love each minute of it.

In public you would never know it, in dealing with family matters there is no hint of it. The power exchange is in our minds. Merely writing these words gives me a rush of good feeling. Very few men can feel about their wives as I do for Annie. Our life together is still fresh after nearly forty years. We never discussed the exchange, I merely did it and she accepted it.

And it is her ability to surrender to her clients and genuinely make certain she made them as content as possible. The amount of money involved was not an issue once a price had been agreed to. Incidentally, she never offered bj's for twenty, fuck for thirty, butt fuck for fifty. No, she did whatever she could to satisfy her customer. She gave them complete power in the encounter.

Because of the Internet ideas such as this can be exchanged. Other men whose wives want to have sex outside of the relationship can understand it is done and with great success. The work you are doing with this website and Liberated Christians is spreading the Word.

Another major item on the Internet is pornography. There are voices arguing that the Net should be controlled. The've succeeded in keeping kiddy porn out. While on the surface that seems laudable the problem is in the wider picture. There are forces at work as we speak trying to limit porn. Porn is liberating. Religions and government control people through two things primarily: money and sex. The anti-tax people are doing a reasonable job of keeping government's power over money somewhat in check. Members of religions are voluntary and will withhold money whenever there is concern (donations are down considerable in Boston because of the news of priestly rapes). The only other means of mass control is therefore free speech, to wit porn.

Porn is in the process of liberating a whole generation of children from the shackles of those who controlled our society for hundreds of years. The only censor should be a child's parents. Children should be free to see whatever they can handle. Pregnancy rates are down in America among young teens and yet there is many times more activity. Why? Oral sex, masturbation, etc. All seen on porn sites. Children of all ages today know others have done and are doing oral sex for instance, so it must be OK. Sex Ed in school says no intercourse if you fear pregnancy. Porn says there is an alternative. And the alternative is fun. Most girls will have given head before graduating high school. That's a good thing. Fewer pregnancies. And frankly, what's wrong with it.

THERE SHOULD BE NO CONTROL OF THE INTERNET. Not even kiddy porn because the forces of control will merely use that as a club to begin our accepting other controls for the benefit of the kids. The same people who gave you Fathers porter, Goegan and Shanley (combined over a thousand rapes of children) want to control you though sex, your sex. We should be frightened by their intentions.

They look at various web sites and see all sorts of liberating things. Anal sex, oral, even beast. They learn nothing is taboo between consenting persons (and animals). Let's use bestiality as an example of ideas being turned.

Fifteen or so years ago the notion of a person having sex with any animal was repulsive, even nauseating to us (Annie and me). Over time we learned from a couple of veterinarian acquaintances that more people practiced bestiality than admitted to it (just as more men have had a homosexual experience than will admit to it). They had women pet owners of all ages with male dogs (most single women have males according to the docs) asked many "odd" questions most men asked. For example, they inquire about germs, those which can be given to humans which could be found on a dog's tongue. They would ask the sort of things such as, "If my dog were to kiss my face and his tongue touched my lips or the inside of my mouth is there reason for concern?" (No, is the answer.) "My dog sometimes gets aroused and dry humps my leg, if he ejaculated on me is there something in his semen which could harm me?" (No again.) Sometimes they ask the vet and more often his assistant (usually another woman). Why do you think those questions are asked? One of the docs made it a point to answer the questions as clearly as possible for these women and occasional men. The tongue is not dirty so long as the dog is normally healthy. It is highly unlikely a normally healthy household pet could pose a health threat with his tongue or semen.

Learning the above reduced our objections to bestiality. However because of the taboo most self-respecting people didn't want to be associated with it in any public way. Also, because it was illegal the only people to be involved were "outlaws" and those who were in serious need of money to feed a drug habit or some other such dire situation. The early porn movies and pictures were with girls with missing teeth and otherwise poorly kept. Who wanted to be associated with that?

Since the Internet more women have been getting into bestiality. What had been mostly poor Central American poverty stricken women who were exploited having sex with dogs, horses, donkeys and eels, suddenly European women, mainly from Denmark began to appear. Now there are American women. All good looking and seeming to be into the scene. I'm neither promoting nor predicting bestiality will take off here. However, the younger (primarily teen) who see these images are less turned away from it than those of us in our 40s, 50s and 60s. Annie and I have gone from nauseating to "if that's what you want to do...." If one of ours chose to do it I don't think we would react to greatly. A dog's penis is very similar to a man and remains harder longer. I can understand a woman without a man turning to her faithful companion for some stimulation.

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Dave inserts:  Like you my initial reaction to bestiality is yuk...but I have been intrigued by some Dolphin experiences.  Here are two articles that may be of interest to some:

Swimmer Escapes Rape by Dolphin who seem to be swingers

Sex with Dolphins - "How To", and a Personal Viewpoint...

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That's what the Internet has done for all sexual practices. The importance of a free and uncontrolled Internet is terribly important to all our liberties. Do you want the Catholic Church which its own documents show the church considered a priest getting consensual sex from even one woman once was cause to be relegated to the trash heap while covering up the activities of literally thousands of priests World-Wide raping children. Hundreds of thousands of victims. Do you want them making decisions on what should be legal or illegal? Maybe you'd prefer the politicians who go along with these religious leaders. No thanks!

Whenever and wherever you get the chance promote the idea of decriminalization of prostitution. No rules needed. There would be far fewer runaway teens manipulated by pimps, fewer street walkers, and maybe a whole new element of women working the profession. Maybe there would be more understanding husbands and solid marriages as well.

Thanks for this opportunity to tell our side of the story.