5/10/09 The War on private consenting adults has exploded in Phoenix- Will the success spread to other cities?

Massive Phoenix Bust August 2008
Going after maybe thousands of customers from 400 page ledger police found. Extensive Police report is very detailed and very damaging. For legal reasons I am not sharing many of the details on a public board only on the Phoenix Private List by private e-mail

Our Key Message:
Private Consenting Adult Prostitution is legal with no major negative issues in almost all the world except the U.S.  The issues of children, trafficking, public nuisance street hookers, and pimps HAVE NOTHING TO DO with Private Consenting Adult sexwork - GET IT! Educate the public to get upset with lawmakers, the courts and police for wasting money on private consenting adult behavior! Get the law out of our bedrooms!
Coalition To Decriminalize Private Adult Sexwork

We do not promote or recommend any illegal sexual services. Unlike most of the rest of the world, citizens of the U.S. do not have consenting, in private, adult freedoms. In the U.S. those in power, know what is best for you. The Christian groups (self-righteous minority that has an undeserving influence) that mostly control the power in the U.S. are so morally weak that they can not coerce everyone into their views without imposing their morality by law to force everyone to follow their perverted repressive view. Ironically their views have no biblical basis, yet they try to control with their biblical ignorance all citizens by laws they get passed. Some cities choose not to actively enforce in private morality law crimes while others like Phoenix are very active wasting police resources setting up stings and entrapments, seeking to prevent healthy, safe, private consenting adult activities that benefit the culture.

This site is more directed to the rest of the world where you have the right to private, voluntary, consenting adult sexworkers.  That is why much of this site is directed to citizens and travelers to Canada and most of the world outside the U.S. where you have these freedoms.  In the U.S. we only recommend legal intimacy that does not involve sexual involvement for any compensation

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Loving touch, sensual and sexual is a fundamental need of all humans.
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This discussion of sex work is the personal view of Dave and does not necessarily represent the views of other leaders of Liberated Christians or Fellowship group members. Dave is co-founder of Liberated Christians Promoting Positive Intimacy and Sexuality Including Responsible Nonmonogamy or Polyamory as a legitimate CHOICE for Christians and others / Exposing false traditions of sexual repression that have no biblical basis. Promoting Intimacy & Women-Centered, Loving Sexuality. Sybian for Maximum G-spot orgasms for women's pleasure and therapy

Why Such A Serious Sex Work Center Without Sexy Pictures
No Sex Ads, No Adult Check, Nothing To Pay To View

Goal: Awareness & Support For Sex Workers
& Sexual Intimacy Opportunities For Customers
My goal is to build awareness and support for sex workers, to promote decriminalization and encourage ideas that could be beneficial to everyone in our culture. If sex work was more honored and done by the right people, women should welcome their husbands going to learn better sex and intimacy skills.

While I support the availability of good intimacy and sex to all single men and women, I can not condone nor encourage cheating by husbands or wives who may not be open and honest about their needs with their spouse.   Fortunately there are many wives and husbands who realize their mate’s sexual needs are greater than their own, and lovingly support their mate getting their needs met outside the marriage. Since many women have much more sexual capacity then men, especially as we age, I see many men encourage their wives to share sexually with others. But it is based on honestly and integrity, which is the opposite of "cheating."

A very wise note from a provider in Dallas written in our Guest book says:
"It's absolutely ridiculous that it's an illegal profession, because the guys I see are so normal and just want some company, to see someone's "smile" and warmth...and of course the sex...usually they are not getting elsewhere. I see this occupation as very healthy since it provides so much to a man and the woman also. Not often can the man find the convenience of a woman who is sexy and willing to cater undivided attention to his desires and the woman able to fulfill her most needed financial desires. And both are usually/hopefully smiling and happy with the experience...for myself, I am elated to have someone so pleased with me, and also because I have usually made his happiest part of the week or month...whatever it be. As the old saying goes when someone has an awesome experience, "this should be a crime"...did someone think that was meant to be literal??

I'm really into thinking good about yourself. I think this business should be a win-win situation for everyone. Since you are into counseling, you know what I mean. That's really my intention...and I do offer my friendship to my clients. This business really gets bad hype, but it is so ironic that I have found it for me and my clients to be such an uplifting experience. Besides from the (legal) risks, I think it to be one of the most positive jobs there is."

Repressive Illogical Laws Reflect Immature Culture
But Free Speech Is Protected
With our repressive laws in this area, I need to make it clear I am not promoting, nor do I receive any financial benefit from any illegal activity. Fortunately the right of free speech protects publishing information about sex workers. Based on the many reports I receive from customers on our private E-mail list,  many sex ads are just to steal money from men and rip them off. This gives all sex workers a bad reputation.  My "mantra" is about sharing intimacy and legal ways of sharing sensually among consenting adults.   Just like buying a fine dinner for the bodies appetite, there should be nothing wrong with paying to receive the same nourishment for the body, intimately and sexually.

My Personal Interest in this site
I enjoy physical intimacy with a wide variety of women who also enjoy good touch, cuddling, massage, caressing etc. I have lots of ideas for more intimacy based on many years of teaching intimacy workshops for couples, counseling many couples as well as hearing from a huge number of men that are seeking more intimacy from sex workers. I am interested in being friends to legitimate sex workers and sharing ideas, but not usually as a client. I have been professionally trained and teach Esalen massage, which many women have enjoyed experiencing with me. I offer free massage to sex workers/dancers/massage therapists. Or, I offer what I call a non-sexual cuddle and caress experience so many women enjoy. Yes, I also enjoy sex but not "just sex" without intimacy with the great sex.  One of the problems I face in dating many "normal" women is that as one said, "I am looking for a man who values monogamy as much as I do."  The problem is they only see cheating as the alternative to monogamy.  But because I have such different views, finding like minded single women is very hard.  Obviously sex workers often face the same issues in their own personal relationships. 

Disclaimers & Legal discussion
There are numerous laws related to how consenting adults can or cannot sensuously enjoy themselves. As a result of confusion about these laws, there may be a tendency to limit our behavior unnecessarily. As the legal boundaries of sex work are explored, this should not be taken to indicate encouragement of illegal prostitution, regardless of how immature and intrusive we may view such laws.  My interest is in encouraging lovingly intimate sensuous encounters between consenting adults. Under no circumstance do I condone or encourage illegal behavior. I receive no financial  benefit from any sex worker for any illegal services.  What is frustrating to many is not knowing where the line is drawn between legal and illegal sensuous behavior.  One purpose of this site is sharing those rules and making them available to other consenting adults. A more extensive legal discussion is included at Sex Work Legal Issues & Suggestions with a special thanks to Clarity for her great legal research and information referenced and linked in that section. I provide no former legal advice on this site but simply ideas.  I am not a lawyer and have no legal training. Any discussion or writing about law on this site is purely conjecture. If you benefit or suffer from any information on this site, it is not my responsibility.