Sex with Dolphins - "How To", and a Personal Viewpoint...
by Dragon-wolfe Dolphinn September, 1996
Dave in Phoenix notes: I have no idea if this is true or not but there
have been enough other reports to make you wonder.
See news article "Swimmer
Escapes Rape by Dolphin who seems to be swinger"
Update 2011 - Interesting site with pictures and videos related to ah..
Dolphins sex organs and interactions at
The site owner sent me e-mail saying:
It is a site that promotes the unconventional relationships that some
people have between humans and dolphins, respectively the two most
intelligent species on the planet. I think that it is great that a site
as high profile as yours would be willing to talk about such a
controversial (Even in your already controversial) topic.
Questions and Answers
QA) What is Zoophilia?
AA) Zoophilia is best described as a love of animals so intimate that the person
(and the animal) involved have no objections to expressing their affection for
each other in the sexual fashion. This is not to be confused with bestiality,
where a person forcefully mates an animal, without their consent, and with no
mutual feelings whatsoever. This is something that I would never do to a dolphin,
since I love them dearly, and treat them with the same respect that an honest
husband would have for his wife and children.
QB) Why Dolphins?
AB) Dolphins are very intelligent, highly emotional and expressive creatures.
They enjoy the company of humans, and if a relationship develops between a human
and a dolphin, as has happened with me, they will, on occasion, wish to express
their trust and affection for you in the most direct way; through mating, or
sex-play. You see, dolphins do not use sex purely for procreative reasons. They
use it as a way of strengthening the bonds between pod mates (mothers and calves
included), and also for fun. Dolphins and humans share this common trait with
very few other animals, so sometimes it makes me wonder when people continue
to ask me "How DO you mate with a dolphin?". Easy. Let the dolphin tell you!
Q1) How do I tell a male dolphin from a female one?
A1) Probably the most common question I get asked. There are 2 ways of determining
the sex of a dolphin. The most obvious way is to take a peek under the peduncle
(the long part of the body connected to the tail flukes). On the dolphin's belly,
directly opposite the dorsal fin, will be the umbilicus, or the navel of the
dolphin. Looking further down towards the tail, you start to see the differences.
Male dolphins have two separate slits for the penis (the urogenital opening)
and the anus. These are separated by a bridge of skin. The male's urogenital
opening is generally located further up the belly, towards the navel.
Females, on the other fin, have one continuous larger slit, the anus located
at the end of it. On either side of the genital slit, you will find two smaller
slits; these are the mammary slits, where the nipples of the dolphin are kept
for feeding the calves. The slit is also located closer to the tail stock of
The other way to determine the sex of a dolphin, if you can't reach their belly,
is to look at their mellon, or head. The males tend to have a fatter, rounder
mellon, while the females are more sleek and streamlined.
Q2) How do I know if a dolphin wants to have sex?
A2) There are various ways a dolphin has of showing that she or he is interested
Males are probably the easiest to detect. They will swim around, sporting an
erection (anywhere between 10 to 14 inches long for a Bottle-nose), and will
have no bones about swimming up to you and placing their member within reach
of your hand. If you are in the water, they may rub it along any part of your
body, or wrap it around your wrist or ankle. (Dolphin males have a prehensile
penis. They can wrap it around objects, and carry them as such.) Their belly
will also be pinkish in colour, which also denotes sexual excitement.
Females can be a little harder. The most obvious way a female dolphin has of
displaying her sexual interest is the pink-belly effect. Their genitals become
very pink and swollen, making the genital region very prominent. They may be
restless, or they may be acting as normal. If you are out of the water, they
may swim up to you and roll belly up, exposing themselves to you, coupled with
pelvic thrusts. If you are in the water, they may press their genitals up against
yours, nibble your fingers, nuzzle your crotch, or do pelvic thrusts against
Each dolphins way of expressing sexual readiness varies, so the longer you know
the dolphin, the better you will detect when they are sexually active.
Q3) What do I do if a dolphin wants to mate with me?
A3) Accept, if possible! I will go through the steps involved with males and
When a male dolphin is interested in you, about the only thing you can do, if
you are male, is to masturbate him. (Unfortunately, I cannot speak for the female
of the human species... it seems women just don't like dolphins enough... so
I cannot say for sure if it is safe to mate with them. I would suspect not,
due to a dolphins size, but then again, I cannot say for a woman.) WARNING!
In the considerations of safety, you should NEVER let a male dolphin attempt
anal sex with you. The Bottle-nose dolphin member is around 12 inches, very
muscular, and the thrusting and the force of ejaculation (A male can come as
far as 14 feet) would cause serious internal injuries, resulting in peritonitus
and possible death. Unless you are the masochistic type, you will have a hard
time explaining your predicament to the doctors in the emergency ward....
A male dolphin's member is roughly S-shaped, tapered at the end. If you are
in the water with them, it is best to support the dolphin on his side, just
under the water, with one hand, and handle him with the other. Male dolphins,
I find, tend to prefer the base of the penis to be gently massaged and squeezed,
as well as gently rubbed along it's length. It feels very much like the rest
of the dolphin (ie. smooth and rubbery to the touch, but firmer). It doesn't
take long for the male to ejaculate, around 40 seconds to a minute, and this
is usually accompanied by either shuddering just prior to ejaculating, and thrusting
and tail-arching during ejaculation. The force of ejaculation can be powerful
at times, so it is best to keep your face out of the line of fire, or keep his
member underwater. You can attempt to lick and suck on the end of it while masturbating
as well, but be warned, do not try to give full throat, and get the hell out
of the way before he ejaculates! A male dolphin could snap your neck in an accidental
thrust, and that would be the end of that relationship.
Well, the females are again a little trickier. There are two courses of action
with a female fin: Masturbation, or mating.
Masturbation: Female dolphins, once they show interest in you, can be supported
in much the same way as the male, one hand under the fin, supporting her, the
other doing the stimulating. The clitoris of the female is located at the top
of the genital slit, and is a prominent lump when erect. You can rub this with
your finger tips, or lick and suck it, but with the oral aspect, you might end
up with a bruised nose as they thrust up into you. You can slide your hand gently
into their genital opening, and feel around inside, rubbing gently. They feel
warm and muscular inside, their labia like tough, squishy sponge when they are
excited. Don't be surprised if they start to play with your hand inside them.
They have very manipulative muscles, and can use them to carry and manipulate
objects, including your hand. (They can do things that would make a regular
human woman turn green with envy.) Their climax is coupled with stiffening,
shuddering, sometimes a lot of thrusting, clinching of the vaginal muscles,
and sometimes vocalisation.
Mating: This is harder. Obviously, being human, it is awkward, but not impossible
to mate in open water. It is easier to have the dolphin in a shallow area (like
the shallows just off the beach) around 1 1/2 to 2 feet deep. This is usually
comfortable enough for both the dolphin and you. Gently, you should roll the
dolphin on her side, so she is lying belly-towards you. You can prop yourself
up on an elbow, and lie belly to belly against her. You may want to use the
other arm to gently hold her close, and place the tip of your member against
her genital slit. She will, if interested, arch her body up against you, taking
you inside her body. There is usually a fair bit of wriggling and shifting,
usually to get comfortable, both outside and inside. Once comfortable, though,
females initiate a series of muscular vaginal contractions that rub the entire
length of your member. They may also thrust rhythmically against you, so enjoy
the experience while you can, since you will rarely last longer that a minute
or two. Just prior to her climaxing, she will up the speed of her contractions
and thrusts. It is interesting to note that the times I have mated with females,
thay have timed their orgasm to mine. Whether they do this consciously or not,
I do not know, but it is a great feeling to have two bodies shuddering against
each other at the one time.
One thing to note. Whether you masturbate or mate a fin, male or female, always
spend time with them afterwards. Cuddle them, rub them, talk to them and most
importantly, and show them you love them. This is essential, as it helps to
strengthen the bond between you. Like a way of saying that this wasn't just
a one night fling. The dolphins appreciate it, and they will want your company
more the next time you visit them.
Q4) What diseases can I get from dolphins? Can I give them any?
A4) I have had no experiences with Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD's) with
dolphins, so I couldn't rightfully say. I do know, however, that you can pass
the Flu between you, along with other respiratory problems. (I got a cold when
a dolphin sneezed on me once. It cleared up after a week or so.) You can also
pass some skin irritations on to them, if you handle them with chaffed or broken
skin. Just like with a human, it is best to BE CLEAN when you handle a dolphin.
If you have cuts on your hands, avoid touching them unless you wash with a Betadine
surgical scrub prior to handling. This is available from most Veterinary and
Surgical suppliers. If you have some disease of some sort, avoid mating, for
the dolphins sake. This is a little known area, more so because Zoophilia is
considered illegal in many places (which I think is a load of crud, but the
law's the law....)
Q5) Is their any way I can invite a dolphin to be masturbated?
A5) Well, yes. If they are hanging around, but not looking particularly excited,
but you are, you can invite them with this way...
Male and Female dolphins can be invited by rolling them on their sides, again,
but instead of going straight to the genital slit, rub along their bellies,
between their pectoral fins, along the navel, and every once in a while, over
the genital slit. If they are responsive, they will show the signs of excitement
as described earlier, and you can proceed as usual. If, however, they are not
responsive, they will swim away, or turn back upright. DO NOT force the issue
with a dolphin! Trying to restrain them will only break their trust in you,
and could cause you serious injury. Pat them, stroke them and talk to them lovingly,
but do not try anything else. It is best, anyway, to let the dolphin tell you
when they are ready. It is far more pleasant, and more fulfilling anyway. And
Q6) Where can I find a dolphin to mate with?
A6) Aquariums are a bad choice, for many reasons. Too public, the dolphins are
not in their natural habitat, night visits are impossible, etc etc... some may
have external enclosures, which may be accesable, but that is no guarantee.
Best thing sometimes is to find a beach or a cove that the dolphins frequent.
It takes time to develop a relationship with a dolphin to the point where they
will let you mate with them (although some have been as quick as 3 days to acclimatize).
Gaining their trust takes time, and you need to visit frequently. This is impossible
for some people, I understand, but it is the best way. Sometimes you just need
to be in the right place at the right time. I have been extremely lucky on two
occasions with wild dolphins, and my current mate is a dolphin who lives in
the harbour of my resident city.
Well, I hope this is of use to whoever is interested. One final note. You should
love a dolphin, not because of the sexual relief they can provide, but because
they are a unique animal, one of the few wild animals that seek the company
of man by their own initiative. This is special. Do not abuse it.
About the Author
I first realized I was a Delphinic Zoophile when I was 12 years old, which is
when I had my first sexual encounter with a dolphin. This is not that particular
occasion, since my first lover was brutally killed in an act of sensless violence
that I will never forgive, or forget. She continues to live in my memories,
I volunteer with dolphins whenever I get the opportunity. They are special to
me, highly intelligent, empathic creatures that are dear to my heart, and are
a healing aspect in my life. So it was that I met this particular dolphin, a
female bottle nose dolphin, 7 years old, who is residing at my home cities coastal
She is a beautiful dolphin, inquisitive and playful, and more used to human
contact than her other, older pod mates. I answer any questions the general
public have about dolphins, and spend most of my free time with them, studying
and talking with them. I learned through continued contact that each dolphin
has a very particular personality and habits, traits useful for differentiating
between the fins who are sometimes hard to distinguish on visual markings alone.
In order to avoid the bustle tourists, I usually visit the dolphins at night,
illegally I must add, since I am considered to be trespassing. But it is the
only time I do not have to be distracted by tourists or the staff. I do not
expect to have sex with the dolphins every time I visit them; I am not that
sort of person. I spend time with them because they are a relaxing and stabilizing
source of peace in an otherwise hectic and unbalanced lifestyle. So it came
as a pleasant surprise when this 7-year-old dolphin began to engage in sex-play
I was quite happily swimming around with the dolphins when she suddenly decided
to grab my foot with her genital slit. Dolphins have very muscular vaginal orifices,
and can use these muscles to manipulate objects and carry them. I stayed still
for a while, to see if she was just playing, but she continued to masturbate
against my foot, and in the light of the torch I sometimes carry, I could see
that her slit had become very pink and had swelled as well. She was aroused!
So, I started to back-paddle with my hands towards a small beached area, partially
submerged in the water. A couple of times she pulled me forward into the deeper
water, but eventually I got my self to the shallows. I dislodged my foot (Being
careful not to pull too hard), and took her gently by a pectoral fin and rubbed
her belly just to aclimatize her, I guess. She immediately rolled belly up and
started doing pelvic thrusts against the palm of my hand. It was unmistakebly
erotic, and by now I was fully aroused.
I stripped off my shorts, and gently pulled her into the shallows until she
was lying on her side, her belly facing towards me, half submerged in the water.
I nestled myself belly to belly against her, and pressed my member against her
genital slit. She immediately arched her body against mine, and took me inside
her body, initiating a quick series of muscular contractions with her vaginal
muscles. I wrapped my left arm around her body and just held her close while
she manipulated me inside her body, until I climaxed barely 2 minutes later.
Surprisingly, her body also shuddered against mine, and we spent the next 5
or so minutes just lying together in the shallows, holding each other, enjoying
our company and revelling in the fact that we had shared something special together,
something very few people can claim to have done.
I do not brag about this though. It is not something you can brag about, since
it not only is demeaning to the act, but it destroys the purpose of the act
as well; to express affection, and trust. I only consent to those dolphins who
ask. As a result, I have mated only three times. Each time was memorable and
special, because each time it was something we both wanted to share with each
other. Sex, for me, is just another, albeit powerful, expression of affection
and trust. I wouldn't engage any other animal, though; it is not my attraction.
But there is little I wouldn't do for a dolphin.
I am aware there are people who would look at this and turn away in disgust.
I can not force my beliefs or my feelings upon them, neither do I wish to. The
only thing I ask of those people is that they try to understand that love, and
trust, and respect are not limited to within a single species. Human kind has
created religions and laws and barbed-wire fences that have been created, written
and erected out of the former belief that we are the best, the smartest, the
most powerful creature on the planet. Now we are realising that we have been
extremely short sighted; many of us are realising this, but there are others
who are bound by their former beliefs. One word is the key to improving our
civilization. One word which could improve many lives.
My life is now dedicated to understanding dolphin kind. The way they act, the
way they communicate, the reasons why a completely wild animal would take any
interest what so ever in humans, a very dangerous wild animal. These may be
answers that I may not answer in my lifetime, but this is a path that has been
layed by a special dolphin who taught me more about love and trust in one week
than any human taught me in my entire life. A path that I hope others will choose
to also tread with me, towards a pool of knowlegde where dolphins and humans
can interact with one another, and learn a great many secrets.
With a dolphin in my dreams, I go forth to love those who have loved me.
Dragon-wolfe Dolphinn. August 15th, 1996.