Guide to Common Abbreviations in Sexwork

I get so many E-mails asking the same questions about abbreviations that are used on various websites especially those outside the U.S. where sexwork is totally legal. Of course in the U.S. we only recommend legal services and anything sexual be between consenting adults with no fee or expectations of such sexual friendship interactions. Here is a brief guide to common abbreviations on the web.

BBBJ = Bare Back Blow Job (oral sex without condom) which has some STD risk and so not usually done.

YMMV = Your Mileage May Vary

GFE = Girl Friend Experience - This means different things to different people but involves providing aspects of social and physical interaction beyond the act itself. It's like having a real girlfriend for an hour. See

LE = Law Enforcement - vice cops that like Nazi's enforce morality laws of the religious fanatics against private adult sexwork using whatever gimmicks they can. Chasing women's breasts is so much more fun than going after real criminals that actually hurt people and who have those nasty guns that go bang instead of the risk of being hit by a big breast. Almost no other country in the world wastes so much police resources on victimless morality crimes. Private consenting adult sexwork is legal (or tolerated) in most of the world except the U.S. Studies show the more sexually repressive a society is the more violent the society, which is certainly true about the U.S. Pay to see or participate in bashing peoples heads, knock them out, blood all over as in movies, TV, boxing, wrestling, but heaven forbid having loving sexuality legal or on TV, since it might make kids actually think sex isn't dirty and shameful.

Unlike most of the rest of the world, citizens of the U.S. do not have consenting adult freedoms. In the U.S. those in power, know what is best for you. The Christian groups (self-righteous minority that has an undeserving influence) that mostly control the power in the U.S. are so morally weak that they can not coerce everyone into their views without imposing their morality by law to force everyone to follow their perverted repressive view. Ironically their views have no biblical basis, yet they try to control with their biblical ignorance all citizens by legal means.

Here is a more extensive list of commonly used terms referring to sexwork in Canada and most of the world except the U.S. In the U.S. we are unique since the morals police enforce morality laws against private sexworkers. Therefore any sexual terms are given for reference only where consenting adults have sexual freedoms. In the U.S. you may not pay for any of these services. We do not promote illegal acts.

Bareback = sex without a condom very high STD risk
BJ = Blow Job (oral sex on him)
BBBJ = Bareback Blow Job Higher STD risk especially for the women.
BS = BodySlide = Girl massages you with her body
C&D - Cash & Dash (aka a ripoff)
Cowgirl = girl on top
DATY = Dining At The Y = Cunnilingus (oral sex on her)
DFK=Deep French Kissing
Digits = Fingers in vagina which can spread bacteria infections
Doggie style = man behind girl, penis in vagina
French = oral sex
FS = Full Service = Intercourse
GFE - Girl Friend Experience Briefly for most guys it includes daty, dfk bbbj, msog, and digits. However when I was among tje first to coin the use of GFE back before websites with only newsgroup packet readers at 300cps, my definition in short was in short based on more of a friendly girlfriend interaction vs. a commercial hard core sex exchange and had nothing to do with unsafe sex acts. See 
Greek = anal sex
GS = Golden Shower = Urinating on or being urinated on
Half & Half = oral sex and intercourse
HJ = Hand Job
HM = High Mileage
ISO = In Search Of
LE - Law Enforcement
LF = Lady Friend
Missionary = man on top
MP = Massage Parlor
MSOG = Multiple Shots on Goal - some providers only allow one ejaculation others are based only on time as 1 hour.
N = nude (the girl that is)
NR = Nude Reverse = nude with reverse massage common in Canada, especially Toronto suburbs
PSE - Pure Sexual Experience or Porn Star Experience - for some it includes swallow, facial, Greek & vocal
Pearls = Pearl Necklace = ejaculation on her upper breasts
Reverse = You get to massage girl
Rimjob = analingus
Russian = penis between girl's breasts
SOG = Shots On Goal" = number of times you release
T = topless
Tea Bagging - Squatting over your lady and dipping your balls in her mouth.
YMMV = Your Mileage May Vary - different customers may have different experiences

Of course in the U.S. (other than the pimp brothels of Nevada). you can not pay for anything sexual, only companionship and non-sexual intimacy. But in Canada as in most of the rest of the world, there are no such restrictions on consenting adult activities. But in the U.S. others in political power know what is best for you.