Angeles City Bar Girl Adventures – Night 2 Details
April 10-11, 1999
Mostly Illusions & Margarita Station Wave
There was a big
thunderstorm in the afternoon and in the evening it was still raining
lightly. I was a bit undecided whether I’d make the Trek to Fields Ave
bars again. But the Trike driver is more in the rain then you are since
they have rain gear, screens etc, but still have open exposure in their
motorcycle since they have to see where they are going!
I decided to go and the
trike too me the back way on a route I hadn’t been before. I sure hope
it would up at Fields Ave instead of being kidnapped! Yep got to Fields
fine although lots of big puddles to go through – but not that bad for
the passenger.
Ziggy’s
I stopped in at Ziggy’s again but just for one diet coke. It’s a
smaller bar with mostly stools directly in front of 3-section stage.
There were only a few other customers in out of the rain. The dancers
were quite attractive but my interest was in meeting them not just
staring at their bodies on stage.
Illusions
Based on an Internet review I had planned to skip this bar because the
review said it was for local Filipinos and that they didn’t cater to
foreigners. But this was another case of don’t believe all you read, or
things change since reviews are written.
It had a girl tout in front
inviting everyone in. The club was very busy with mostly us foreigners,
mostly American and Australian it seemed. Had nice booths and lots of
girls both on stage and others happily interacting with the customers.
Seemed friendlier than most bars.
I asked if they had bottled
water and waitress said yet. But it came in a glass with ice. Due to my
concerns about bacterial didn’t drink it.
After a while the usual
girl with all her friends came and sat with me. None spoke much English
so the Internet report of being mostly for locals made some sense.
Except that I couldn’t find a Filipino man in the large crowd.
Rosa
Most of the dancers were the young giggly type. The two girls on my
right were probably the youngest allowed to work in the bars – 18. They
were all over me beig affectionate. The girl on my left, Rosa was
probably early 20s, more Chinese looking, slender but not too thin like
some. She was nicely holding my hand and I started doing my massage and
nice touch with the hand I had over her shoulder. I was politely trying
to ignore the girls clawing me from the other side and wanted to focus
on Rosa.
Her English was poor but I
felt a strong intimacy connection with her. As usual wanting to be sure
a girl likes my back massage I ask her if OK and get a very nice “OK,
nice, like”. A little later she asks, “me massage you?” She does a
good neck massage on me (my neck is always tight). I also got a very
favorable response to the nice face caresses I like to do as long as the
girl seems to like it.
We Interrupt this Program
for a Power Outage
We have one of the common power failures of the Philippines. The
emergency battery powered lights on and provide adequate light I the
customer area, although the stage is dark. I’m in a slightly elevated
booth area with a good view of the main area just beneath me with mostly
just bar stools. The area becomes very crowed since all the dancers
come into it since it’s the only area that has lights. Everyone seems to
be having a lot of fun in the darker bar, as I am with Rose,
non-verbally.
In about 30 minutes the
power returns. I decide even with the language problem to try and
barfine Rosa. To avoid the risk of being stuck all night with someone
non-sexual like the night before I’m wondering if they do short-terms,
like in Thailand of 2 hours with you.
In fact during the power
outage girls were joking about “short-term”. But I’m not getting any
response I could understand trying to suggest this from Rosa or later
from the Mamasan. Rosa understood well “barfine” and replied “yes, yes,
good,” but the short-term part didn’t seem to communicate. OK, I’ll
take the sexual dud risk again. She also didn’t seem to know where the
Vegas Hotel was, but wherever it was, she wanting to go with me.
My Attempt at Social Custom
Acceptable “Fetch the Mamasan”
The “mama” is on the other side of the bar chatting with people. How
do I get her attention? I can’t wave, raise my hand or do the American
come here finger motion since I’ve read those are offensive gestures in
Asia. The proper sign is to move the fingers with the palms down. I
had seen the gesture once on the street.
Taking the risk of looking
like a fool, at an instant when the mama looks sort of my way I raise my
arm just high enough to I think be seen and do my attempt at the hand
signal. Well, what do you know it worked! She saw me, nodded her head
and came right over! Mama was very friendly and the barfine was P950
($US25).
While Rosa is changing into
street clothes mama sits next to me and is very friendly, touching me
nicely and writes in her book that I’m Dave, an American at Vegas
Hotel. For the girls safety concerns I thought this was a good idea,
but none of the other mama’s asked anything about me, just arranged the
barfine!
Off we go by trike in the
light rain to my hotel. To my joy, the night is full of wonderful
intimate sexuality unlike the prior night. We had some nice long
sessions before going to sleep and I awoke to her intimate touch and
cuddling next to me and had good sexual sharing in the morning. Sex is
a universal language and our inability to communicate verbally didn’t at
all limit our great intimate sexuality. I tipped her P500 ($US13),
which seemed to make her very happy bargirl.
“Me Lucky Girl”
The funniest verbal exchange and the most clear English she spoke was
when she asked if I was married. I said “no, not married” and her eyes
lit up saying “single?” responding to my reply of yes, she replied in
very clear excited English “me lucky girl!” Her response and expression
was far more hilarious than can be described in words!
Ah, There is Good Sex In
Angeles
So now I know at least some bargirls actually seem to like good sex.
Again I point out this isn't want your paying the girl for by the
barfine or tip, but if you like each other sex certainly is an option
which virtually all men enjoy! But finding good English, someone who
enjoys mature discussion, a great intimacy connection with good sex all
in one person proves difficult in all my experiences in Angeles. The
finding attractive women is the easiest part.
Now that I’m less desperate
for good sex, I may spend the next few nights meeting many more women to
see if I can find someone that has all the attributes I seek. Although
I am feeling the odds are slim, especially finding someone whose English
I can easily understand.
But knowing I can have a
great time even with the language barrier encourages me to make my next
research adventure to Bangkok. My expectation from years of reading
newsgroup postings and web sites, is that Thailand will be much more
sexual, more variety and I love the idea of their soapy body massages as
well as great traditional non-sexual massage.
Margarita Station
I had lunch Sunday at Margarita Station, which was my favorite Fields
Avenue eating spot. Kokomos’ was also good but I seemed to spend more
time at Margarita’s.
The Wave Confuses Old Dave
– Nice man at Margarita
Remembering my reading on socially proper ways of getting attention I
Asia, here I am trying to be so respectful of Asian culture and I notice
this very friendly Margarita worker joking and waving at two girls
eating in the balcony area above the restaurant main floor. Now old
Dave is confused. Maybe a friendly waive is proper just not a come here
gesture.
I’m also curious who this
really nice friendly guy is. Maybe the owner JC? He was obviously “in
charge” as he talked to all sorts of workers from the waitresses to the
guys unloading something from a truck in back. Lots of workers came to
him with questions and he was playing and joking very nicely with many
of the workers. Gee, this guy is nice and seems to have a wonderful
working relationship with staff. He played and joked with a small
child. Said if he wanted to be a worker for a moment and go get
something he would pay him with ice cream or something like that. Don’t
think any child labor laws were being violated! He jokingly startled a
worker sitting at table sneaking up swatting a fly on the table with a
fly swatter. There were a few flies, not many and this guy was trying
to be sure that “any fly was a dead fly” it seemed.
When I
returned I was very curious who this was. I looked at all the pictures
on the theville.com site but didn’t
find him. Thinking it might be JC I asked on the asfo list and a few
other places. Kabayo was nice enough to send me a picture of JC. Nope,
this mystery man is much older, about 6’ tall, medium build, gray hair,
mustache and a gray beard around his chin. Then JC himself replied. It
was “Doc” the day manager. Doc never imagined he was being observed so
much by me! I assume his nice friendly waive is OK in Asian/Philippine
culture?
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