Intimacy Search At Los Angeles Hostess Clubs / Intimate Strip Clubs
Special Research Report Updated October 2001 and September
25, 2000
My focus is intimacy sharing not just how far you can go sexually
If you are just looking for "hot babes" to grope and get sex from,
this report is NOT for you. My interest in hostess clubs and some strip
clubs is not in looking at big boobs and sexy tease dances of a naked body.
I am more interested in inner beauty combined with a reasonably physical body
attraction. I share ideas that men who might also enjoy, being
able to share good touch with women and treating them with loving tenderness
as a person and not just as a sex object to get stimulated by. The response
over many years from like-minded men has been fabulous which has encouraged
me to continue to be outspoken and share my ideas and experiences. There
are far more opportunities for such intimacy outside the U.S. since laws
in the U.S. usually only allow women to be sex objects to gawk at instead
of the positive interactions I enjoy. But there is also some limited
opportunities in Los Angeles, especially at hostess clubs, which are now unique
to Los Angeles.
Over the years, I've been involved in many discussions. Sometimes there
is a hostile attitude of some men who are apparently very insecure and
think intimacy is sissy stuff. They are really macho men so they made fun
of my ideas. But the vast majority of men over the years that express
their views, do have an interest in good touch, even if non-sexual, and more
and more are finding they enjoy their more sensitive side, instead of just
being the macho stud.
In our culture men are constantly teased by women's sexuality to sell almost
everything, but heaven forbid we actually interact intimately with a real
women, especially a sexworker. Violence (including sports like boxing/wrestling/Jerry
Springing antics) is the norm and accepted. Being macho is what is in,
not being a warm intimate good touch man that so many women would prefer.
It is the same thing that wives tell me in
Liberated Christian workshops
about wishing that their husbands were more intimate. But we don't train in
our culture good touch/intimacy skills and its not something that is just
natural for most men. Lap dancing or hostess club interactions can be a "lab"
to experiment with good touch ideas to be used in real relationships.
There is nothing wrong with being sexual. That is man's natural inclination
with women. But I simply suggest that for some of us, learning good touch
skills can wonderfully enhance our relationship with a wide variety of women.
Some of you men are much better intimate loving toucher's than I am I'm sure.
Many of you also have the advantage of being younger and more attractive than
I am. I'm more than twice the age of most of the dancers, graying with a
paunchy midriff. I don't offer much money or physical attractiveness. I offer
something very different and I enjoy the reactions I get from various dancers
and hostess club gals. My interest in relating to dancers in not any
better than anyone else's. It is simply an alternative to try for men that
might enjoy more intimate, high-touch, non-sexual interactions with wonderful
attractive women.
I also very much enjoy more intimate full sexuality. Without the legal
issues, and far lower costs, I highly recommend Canada, especially
Victoria, B.C.
or Montreal, or
Thailand as I
have reported on in great detail in other "hands on research" reports. There
are of course many other great places without the legal issues that are virtually
unique to the U.S.
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